How to find your true Love
This one is actually from Emileen. Sajer nak check whether it’s true or not. Tak tau la nak cuba ker tak. Korang ader yang nak cuba ker? Kalau ader, ckp la ek kalu berkesan. Korang nyer opinion camaner, berkesan tak benda mcm ni??
Rule to find True Love:
1. Know yourself. What are you looking for and
why? In the upcoming year do you want to be in a
casual dating relationship or are you looking to
begin dating a serious prospect. What is your
ultimate goal? The first step in reaching a goal is
to determine what that goal is.
2. Do you have anything from your past interfering
with your ability to be in a good relationship? For
some people to be prepared to be in a serious
intimate relationship they need to let go of old
issues. Do you have any hidden or lingering
feelings to deal with? Are you willing to do what
you need to, to let go and move forward with your
life?
3. Are you putting your best foot forward when you
date? This question is all about how you feel about
yourself. Would you be happier if you were in
better shape, or if you had your personal affairs in
better shape? Finding success in dating often
happens when people are in a positive frame of
mind. If there are issues that are bothering you
about your life or yourself, what can you do this
year to bring them more into focus?
4. What steps are you willing to take to meet a
new partner? Many people have strong ideas about
the "right" way to meet a partner. What are yours
and are you willing to expand yours? Consider
dating online, or joining organizations that you
have an interest in. Make this a year of getting out
of your comfort zone and try something new!
5. Asking for help. Your friends and loved ones
know you the best; if they’re willing to introduce
you to others this can be a great way to meet new
people. It also offers you some support along the
way.
6. Set some goals for yourself that you feel you
can reach. If in 2002 you went on five dates, set a
goal to double that number. Remember dating is
the process of meeting new people to see if there
is chemistry. It takes time and numbers to reach
your goal. Remind yourself of this if you feel
disappointed that it hasn’t happened yet.
7. Pay attention to you internal clock. If you’ve
been dating a lot and you’re feeling discouraged
take a break! Once you begin feeling negative
about dating this will show in your experiences.
Take a breather to look at your expectations and
give yourself some time to regenerate. Once you
are feeling better, try and try again. The person
you are seeking is out there, it just may take
some time.
8. Keep a positive attitude about dating. There are
6 billion people on this planet, and you likely have
several soul mates out there.
9. As you are going through this process be good
to yourself. Treat yourself to things that encourage
you to feel good about yourself. This doesn’t mean
that you have to spend money on yourself; you
can get just as good of a feeling from allowing
yourself a full night’s sleep as you do from going to
dinner with friends. Remember that 99% of finding
a partner is about you and how you feel about
yourself. Confidence in yourself is rated time and
again the most attractive quality in a person. Don’t
forget it!
10. And lastly, have fun! Dating is meant to be an
enjoyable process of learning about who and what
makes you happy. Enjoy the discovery process
and this time next year you’ll be ringing in the New
Year with a loving partner by your side
Agak-agak la kan, If I try it..can I get Rain???
Hehehh, mimpi siang hari jer laaa..
