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The Secret Language of Women — Keywords and Their Meaning

Fine

This is the word a woman uses at the end of any argument in which she feels she is right about but needs to shut you up. Never use "fine" to describe how a woman looks. This will cause you to have one of those arguments.

Five Minutes

This is really half an hour. It is equivalent to the same "five minutes" that a football game is going to last before you take out the garbage.

Nothing

This really means, "You’d never understand." "Nothing" is usually accompanied by a woman’s desire to turn you inside out, upside-down, and backwards. "Nothing" is often said prior to an argument that will last "Five Minutes" and will end with the word "Fine."

Go Ahead (with raised eyebrows)

This is not permission. This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over "Nothing" and will end with the word "Fine.

Go Ahead (with normal eyebrows)

This means, "I give up" or "do what you want because I don’t care." You will get the "Go Ahead" with raised eyebrows in just a few minutes, followed by "Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in about "Five Minutes" when she cools off.

Loud Sigh

This is not actually a word, but is still a verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot at that moment and is wondering why she is wasting her time arguing over "Nothing."

Soft Sigh

Again, not a word, but a verbal statement. "Soft Sighs" are one of the few things that some men actually understand. This means a woman is content and your best bet is to not move or breathe and she will stay content.

That’s Okay

This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman can say to a man. "That’s Okay," means that she wants to think long and hard before paying you retributions for whatever it is that you have done. "That’s Okay" is often used with the word "Fine" and used in conjunction with the raised Eyebrow "Go Ahead." At some point in the near future when she has plotted and planned, you are going to be in some mighty big trouble.

Please Do

This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance to tell the truth, so be careful and you shouldn’t get a "That’s Okay."

Thanks

A woman is thanking you. Do not faint; simply say, "You’re welcome."

Thanks a lot

This is much different than "Thanks." A woman will say, "Thanks a lot" when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have hurt her in some callous way, and will be followed by the "Loud Sigh." Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the "Loud Sigh," as she will only tell you "Nothing."

Found this article via virtualfriends.net. I thought it was interesting that they observe the way women do in everything. I think the opposite sex (the guys), they must have been curious actually about what was going on in a woman’s mind just as we also are curious about what was going on their mind. Sometimes I would like to ask them what are they thinking about things because majority of guys seems to be ignorant most of the time. They always show that they are not really interested in being observant like we girls are. Are they doing it to look cool? Or are they just retarded? Or they just want to impressed girls? What is their intention? If they really just want to impressed girls, I advise them not to do it because majority of girls hate or I could say reaally hate ignorant guy. It is because of their ignorant attitude that many problems occur between guys and girls. I’m not saying girls are not to blame at all because I know everybody is not perfect. But just to give you example, have you ever watch in movies or if you had gone through it yourself the situation where guys will always forgot about important dates like birthdays or anniversary that usually was very important for girls and girls will never forget it. Guys will usually forgot about those dates and after that usually there will be fights and argument among them. I also gone through this before and this show how guys can be a little bit ignorant about this. Are they naturally born like this or what? I’m not being mad to guys or anything but I only want to express about my thoughts. I am thinking that maybe I want to make a research about this one day (if I want to make PHD in psychology la kan. but it sound good) because I like to research on the faculties of mind between guys and girls and see how much difference is there between them. Another crazy thing in my mind. Hmmm…

Hope my Jo In Sung won’t be that ignorant…..

Jo In Sung in Mirepa commercial, a cosmetic brand for guys. Funny that in Korea they have a cosmetic brand for guys in fact, A LOT OF cosmetic brand for guys. Haha.

Love In Sung Oppa!!!!!!!!!!!

Ha ha, juzt wanna tell you guys about the story of my registration for Sem 2 last Wednesday. Even though it’s a bit late, but I still wanna tell you guys about it because it was like one of the crazy thing that I do in my life. Because Dayat and I are determined giler nak dapat every subject that we want, both of us nekad to sit at IRK lab from 8.30 am to 7 pm (until registration finished). We sit at the lab for about 10 hours!! I never did such a lab marathon before (marathon rentas desa ada laa, time sekolah dulu)  I woke up a little bit late but Dayat already at the lab since 8.30 so she secure a place for me. I came to the lab at 9 and I only got up from the seat to but some food and pray. Crazy, isn’t it? But it was worth it, I got all the subjects that I want. Feels great after it even though my back is aching. I should have bring my bolster (bantal guling) along. Anyway, right now, I’m moving on from Rain to my latest crush, also a Korean actor, Jo In Sung!! he’s sooo talented and so very very good in acting. You will feel like crying if you watch him cry in the drama, Memories of Bali that I highlighted before. Here’s some pics of him in the drama and his latest pictures. To see more, go to My Memories of Bali album and Jo In Sung’s album.

In the drama, Memories of Bali…

Latest Picture.

With Ha Ji Won, The heroine. They did commercial (iklan) together.. Cute couple.

Heheh, seems like it had been a long time since I last updating my blog ek. How’s you guys doing? About the title of my blog today, actually I’m not talking about my memories laa, I never go to Bali before. Just wanna talk about a Korean drama, Memories of Bali. I had been locked in my room for days just because I want to finish this drama that I had just bought at Kotaraya. A very different Korean drama that I have seen and it is really unique like no other drama. Why I say it’s unique? It’s because of the storyline. Usually in Korean drama, it is the heroine that will cry because of heartbreak. But in this drama, there is two gorgeous guy who cry for the same woman. Whenever the girl goes out with the one guy, the other guy will cry and vice versa. The storyline is also very much different from Korean melodrama story. Not that usual kind of Winter Sonata story where love seeems to be very wonderful. In this story, you will get a reality check because the character are just like us especially the heroine that seems to be sympathetic because her character are poor, and always be humiliated but then she found luck when one rich guy and one brooding handsome guy fall in love with her. But is it luck? You have to find out. Well, the way she cope up with her life, not eating enough food and never get to spend money is just like the way I am right now because my mother did not give me consent to use my money so I’m broke right now. I can only eat bread.. which is why I feel so touched when I watch this story. This drama was aired in Astro Channel 19 AEC. Watch it if you the type that can watch any type of Korean drama. For those who can only watch funny drama (this one goes to you, Syakira) I didn’t recommend this drama for you laa. But you can still watch it because the storyline is very interesting and always make my heart goes nervous (as if I was watching action movie @ horror movie la kan) because you may never guess what will happen next in every episode. There is twist to everything. And if you want to see a guy menangis sampai teresak-esak, you can watch this drama. Both of the lead actor was very good even though many people say that the heroine is not that beautiful, but I think she is okay laa. Even though the hero and heroine is not that famous, but they are very good la in acting. They make the story alive.You can see the pictures that I posted below about the drama.

The 1st hero..

Jo In Sung (Character: Jung Jae Min)

A very cute and very tall model turned actor. In this drama he plays a rich guy who doesn’t seem to care much about anything at first but then he slowly turns to be a one-girl man where he could do anything for the girl to the extent that he almost became insane if he couldn’t see her for one day.

The other hero

So Ji Sub(Character: Kang In Wook)

A famous actor in Korea. Even though not too handsome, but his acting is first class. In this drama, he plays a poor guy who have an ambition to make his life better to the extent that he steal his company’s money through a very strategic plan. He also falls madly with the girl which became the main conflict of the story.

The girl..

Ha Ji Won (Character: Lee Soo Jung)

A very famous actress in Korea also. You might have seen her in Korean horror movie, The Phone. Here she play a character of a girl who is not afraid to do anything to change her poor state of life. She got lucky when a rich guy falls for her but then she realize that she also had fallen in love with the poor but strong motivated guy who lives beside her house. Conflict arise when the rich guy did not want to let her go easily.

Actually there is another heroine who at first cause the conflict in Bali between Jae Min and In Wook because she was Jae Min’s fiance (forced by their parents) and ex-lover of In Wook. But I did not want to highlight her here because I hate her sooo much in the drama because she was just annoying from the beginning till the end of the drama. Not that she did not act well, but maybe he character is just tooo annoying.

Both Hero…

Diorang dua orang ni asyik gaduh jer dalam drama ni. Dari mula sampai akhir. Nasib la diorang best friends kat luar.

Keadaan darurat skrg ni memang buat aku pening kepala giler. I’ve never live like this before. Dulu kalau takder air, kat rumah selalu bapak aku @ abang aku  la akan angkat air. Tapi semalam, aku kena angkat air sensorang sampai tingkat 3!! Penat giler. Bukan setakat kat UIA ni ajer, tapi satu Gombak ni takder air. Busuk laa sumer org ek. Syakira sampai nak balik rumah lagik. Aku nak balik gak, tapi mak aku kata bazir duit jer. Sebab tiket balik rumah aku pon 20 ringgit lebih, pergi balik dah 40 ringgit. Nak buat camaner? Terpaksa laa aku tahan berjimat guna air yang aku tadah sendiri dari lori air selangor selama 3 hari nih. Nak balik rumah abang aku, malas pulak sebab nanti aku akan diseksa dek kenakalan melampau 4 org anak sedara aku tu. Dah la hari tu dari hari Khamis aku kena jadi babysitter diorang. Huii, tak tahan laa. Aku baru jer lepas check aku punya final exam schedule. Memang sajer je nak menambahkan bara ke atas diri aku yang dah memang panas ni. Nak tau kenapa? Aku habis exam betul2 sehari sebelum raya!!!!!!!!!! Huaaaaaa!!!!! Sedihnyer!!!! Sedih giler sebab:

1) Aku takut tiket abis. Kalau abis, aku nak raya kat mana???

2) Roomate aku semua dah balik dah masa tu sebab diorang abis exam 2 hari sebelum aku!! Aku kena tinggal sensorang laa!!

3) Bapak aku tanak amik aku pasal puasa. Dia letih nak drive.

4) Tak dapat la aku nak merasa suasana bukak puasa ngan mak aku. Pulak tu, tak dapat tolong mak aku buat ketupat!

Tak tau la aku nak cakap macam mana tapi memang nasib aku malang betul sem ni. To all my friends in UIA, sabor ajer la ye. Kalau ader bau tu, tok sah la nak saling salah menyalahkan antara satu sama lain sebab sumer org pon tak mandi!! Huhuhuhuhu..

Always RAINing……